I've come out multiple times in my life. I came out at 18 to myself. At 23 to my friends. And after that to my family. Growing up in the Catholic Church it took many years of learning to love and accept myself before finally telling others I was gay. My fear of being outed kept me in the closet for many years, but when I finally told my friends and family, I found nothing but support. I know that I am extremely lucky and privileged to now find myself surrounded by a loving group of friends, family and most importantly a chosen family that loves me unconditionally. I still occasionally have to come out again, especially at work or in professional settings. People see my wedding ring and ask about my wife. I gently but firmly correct them, however, and tell them about my amazing and loving husband. I hope that by being out at school, at work and in my life that it gives courage to all those who are still struggling to live as their authentic self.