I am composed of numerous identities. I identify as a woman of middle age, who has a physical disability called Cerebral Palsy. Cerebral Palsy does not define who I am, and it does not dictate my likes or dislikes or how I present myself to others, because it is only a small piece of the puzzle, that is me.
I was born with Cerebral Palsy and without having it, I would have not been the person that I am today. For example, I may have chosen a different career path or social circles.
My disability is not a blessing or a hindrance, it is simply a part of me. I have often been asked by individuals, “if there was a way to reverse the brain damage that causes Cerebral Palsy, would I take the opportunity to do so?” My response is always – NO, because I would be a completely different person, with different opportunities and experiences.
Cerebral Palsy has its challenges and opportunities, and with every challenge or opportunity there is a lesson to be learnt. It is the lessons that help us to grow and shape our trajectory in life.
I am proud to be me! No more, no less!