My journey with identity has not always been easy. Partly growing up in a country where being queer is still heavily stigmatized and criminalized and having a conservative family shaped the way I viewed myself and the world around me. For many queer Africans, existing authentically can come with fear, silence, and the pressure to hide parts of who we are in order to feel safe. Coming to Centennial helped me better understand the importance of community and the impact that safe and inclusive spaces can have on someone’s confidence and growth.
As a Black queer student, I have learned that being queer is all about resilience. It is continuing to take up space, build community, and embrace yourself despite systems or environments that may try to make you feel invisible. I hope my story reminds others, especially Black and international students, that they are not alone and that there is strength in embracing every part of who you are.
Be resilient, continue to exist, embrace yourself, and take space.